Anybody who knows me knows how much I love Y2K-inspired looks and aesthetics. I’ll be the first one to note that the early 2000s was a dark time in fashion (mainly because of questionable maximalism), but there were a few trends that deserve the resurgence we’ve been seeing over the last few years.
From Juicy Couture bags to airbrushed tees, there are so many moments of Y2K Fashion that I love. For my 28th birthday, I tried to capture the nostalgia in my early 2000s-inspired photoshoot.
Keep reading to learn more about how I finessed this early 2000s photoshoot at home without spending much money.
Of course, I had to find the perfect early 2000s background to set everything off. Surprisingly, I don’t own a real backdrop stand, so I opted to pin the background to the wall with thumbtacks. It did the job, but you should use your better judgment when doing this at home.
I want the photos to feel a bit overexposed as they often did in the early 2000s. Setting up soft box lights relatively close to my face did the trick.
Instead of using a ring light, I opted for this dimmable LED light attached to my camera for a bright early 2000s photo feel. I knew I was going to wear sunglasses in some of the photos, so I skipped the ring light to avoid a circular glare on the lenses.
Camera
Credit: Amazon
I purchased this camera for my birthday in 2020, and it’s so worth it. It’s a great beginner-friendly camera that has grown with me as a creator. I’m still using it four years later in 2024.
At the time of this photoshoot, I didn’t have a name chain which would be the obvious jewelry of choice. So, I went with some layered initial jewelry instead. if you have name jewelry lying around somewhere, doing this early 2000s-inspired photoshoot is the perfect opportunity to dust them off and give them some shine.
Not sure if it counts as a hairstyle, but my go-to in the earlier part of the 2000s was. doobie wrap. There was nothing like going to get a wash and set, having your hair in a doobie overnight, prepping for the big reveal in the morning.
To step it up a bit, I added rhinestone bobby pins to make a statement. I’d recommend grabbing these from your local beauty supply store if you can (I got mine from Amazon). FYI, I’m very proud that I could wrap my wig myself. I guess all those years spent going to the Dominican hair salon on Sunday came in handy after all.
Of course, I went for a french tip. But instead of classic white, I opted for blue to match the overall vibe of the shoot. One thing the girls loved to do in the early 2000s was be matchy matchy.
Photoshoot Ready Makeup (Flawless Complexion)
Credit: Astoldbymika.com
I knew I wanted something simple and flawless—almost a no-makeup look but more glam. Fenty Beauty never disappoints when it comes to creating a photo-ready face. The only way to complete my early 2000s photoshoot was with some of my favorite Fenty Beauty products.
I may earn a commission for purchases made through links in this post, however, all opinions are my own—YKTV.
As I reflect on my roaring 20s, I’ve come to realize that I’ve A. come such as long way in what seems like such a short period of time. B. I’ve really gained so much wisdom and perspective on just about everything and C. the pandemic definitely stole my late 20s but I try my best not to be salty about it.
Which brings me to the reason we’re gathered here today—sharing things that I learned in my 20s that will have you saying “Damn Mika, you ain’t never lie!” So, grab your cup of tea (or wine) and get ready for some unfiltered (and unsolicited) wisdom. And oh, yeah…Happy 30th Birthday to me!
In life, you’ll encounter all sorts of people—some people you’ll click with instantly. Some you may take some time warming up to. Other’s may down right get on your damn nerves so bad that you’ll regret the day you first ever crossed paths. It’s alright to accept that not everyone will not be your cup of tea (spoiler: sometimes you won’t be theirs either). Make it a point to surround yourself with those who uplift and support you, and let go of toxic connections or peoples that just don’t do it for you.
2. Compartmentalizing your friends is also okay
I know some people are going to 100% disagree with this. And if that’s the case, go write about it on your own blog. From my experience its normal if each friend plays a unique role in your life. Some are your partners in crime that will hop in an Uber with you to run down on the trifling, good for nothing type of brother that broke your heart. Others may be the ones that you feel comfortable talking about things like major career and financial decisions.
Embrace the beauty of diversity in friendships and cherish the different needs each relationship fulfills. Stop expecting one person to be your everything—that’s way too much pressure even for the greatest friend in the world.
3. Knowing how to drive is actually important
Even if you reside in the concrete jungle of NYC, learning to drive opens up opportunities and gives you a sense of freedom. Who knows when you might want to embark on a spontaneous road trip? Or you simply have to be the designated driver due to an emergency of some sort. Not to mention, taking cabs and Ubers everywhere in this economy is draining your bank account. BFFR.
4. Take responsibility for your own issues and actions
Blaming others for your problems only holds you back. From my experience, people who don’t take accountability generally lack self awareness, repeatedly get caught up in the same vicious cycles and quite frankly, become stuck in their ways. It’s time to own up to your mistakes/poor decisions, learn from them, and grow tf up. You can’t keep blaming the same people and situations forever. It’s getting old and tired.
5. Shop for personal style, not trends
I love a good trend as much as the next girl, but chasing trends will leave you with nothing more than a closet full of clothes you’ll wear a few times, forget about, then eventually dispose of. Instead, focus on buying pieces you genuinely adore and will wear time and time again. Pieces that call your name and bring you joy whenever you pick it up. I personally get excited curating a wardrobe that fits me (and possibly passing it on to my beautiful unborn daughter).
How many trips have you attempted to plan with a group of friends that never made it out the group chat? How about all those restaurant TikTok vids you’ve been sending to your friends with no actual reservation in sight? Exactly. Treat yourself to dinner dates, embark on solo trips, and engage in activities that bring you joy. Riding solo does wonders for self discovery—don’t take it for granted.
7. Trick yourself into being a type A girlie
You don’t have to be born an organization guru or the girlie that lives off of a to-do list. However, with some many moving pieces in this ghetto that we call adulthood, these type of characteristics make a huge different. Implement little tricks and routines to boost your productivity and organization skills. You’ll be amazed at the difference it makes. And yes, buy the iPad because it can actually help you get your life together (that’s my experience at least).
8. Not all workplaces are toxic
Contrary to popular belief, there are workplaces out there that nurture growth and foster a positive environment. Seek out opportunities that align with your values and don’t settle for less. Yes, it is ghetto that we have to work to live in the first place (who actually is responsible for this?) but you honestly don’t have to be miserable doing so.
9. …but don’t be afraid to quit a job
And when it comes to a job that I don’t f*ck with? I’ma quit it. I remember writing a blog post about when it I knew it was time to quit my job. Spoiler: I didn’t regret quitting that job or any other job after that. Your happiness and fulfillment matters. If a job doesn’t align with your goals or values, don’t be afraid to walk away. It’s not the end of the world—it’s a chance to find something better. Plus, we all know that when a job is through with you they don’t think twice about kicking you to the curb.
10. Master the art of money management
Leave your money trauma in the past. Stop calling yourself broke. No more saying, “I’m so bad with money.” Money has energy and the way you move with it determines how it flows back to you. Don’t be delusional and go finance a pink Tesla in the name of manifestation but just know that money is made up and unlimited—there’s nothing stopping you from getting to it except yourself.
Also, work smarter not harder. More money doesn’t necessarily mean more work.
11. Harness the power of your words
While we’re touching the subject, remember words hold incredible power, so choose them wisely. Avoid negative self-talk and reframe your mindset. Instead of saying you’re broke, focus on manifesting abundance and financial freedom. Whether you have to put it in a vision board, pray on it or create mantras, watch what you say and only speak power into yourself and the world.
12. Stop giving everyone the benefit of the doubt
Sometimes, the doubt just don’t benefit a damn thing. Not everyone deserves a place in your life. Don’t force connections with people who consistently prove themselves to be less than worthy. Value yourself enough to surround yourself with genuine souls.
13. It’s okay not to have everything figured out
Let me start by saying being scared to turn 30 is crazy. There’s no magical age when everything suddenly falls into place. Embrace the journey of self-discovery, learn from the twists and turns, and trust that life will unfold beautifully on its own time.
14. Take care of your body, inside and out
If there’s one thing that I learned in my 20s, it’s that your body changes a lot. Gone are the days that you can marathon drink, eat bacon egg and cheese sandwiches every morning and be in the best shape of your life. Your body is your temple, so treat it with love and respect. Nourish your body with wholesome food, protect your skin with sunscreen, stay active, and prioritize self-care.
15. Stop caring about others’ opinions
A a fly, Bajan singer turned entrepreneur once said “people gone talk whether you doing bad or good”. Opinions are like assh*ole’s–everyone has one. Focus on your own growth and aspirations. As long as you’re being true to yourself and pursuing what feels right to you, what others think is irrelevant. Chances are they’re projecting their own insecurities onto you anyway.
16. Silence speaks volumes
Not every situation deserves a response. Sometimes, the best approach is to keep it cute and keep it mute. Your peace of mind is worth more than engaging in unnecessary drama. This includes online, btw. Like girl, are your really going to let @UserExperiment626 really piss you off at 8 am with their lame a*s comment?
17. Get better with time
Respect your time and others’ by being punctual. Being fashionably late might sound cool, but let’s face it, it’s just plain rude. Show up on time and radiate success. Furthermore, be realistic with time. A lot of people who feel like they don’t have enough time just are delusional with time.
Bonus: Buy back time by delegating tasks when and if you can. For instance, I’m officially pro drop-off laundry because going to a hot NYC Laundromat for a few hours every couple of weeks just doesn’t work for me. For you this may look like buying groceries with Instacart or finding a Virtual assistant if you’re really about that life. Find ways to “make time”.
Structure and consistency are legit the foundations of success. We learn this all the way up to the time we’re in college and drop it once we enter the real world. Create a routine that aligns with your goals, helps you stay organized, and maximizes your productivity + happiness. Your future self will thank you.
19. Being single is not the end of the world
As much as I want to be shouting “my man, my man, my man” from the top of the Empire State building, I’m loving how much I’ve been loving on myself. I actually think it’s making me a better person for a future partner. Love yourself unapologetically and focus on personal growth. Your ideal partner may be busy working on themselves too. Embrace the single life, indulge in self-discovery, and cherish the freedom to create your own happiness.
20. Unfollow uninspiring people online
Your online space should be filled with inspiration and positivity. If someone doesn’t light your creative fire or uplift your spirit, it’s time to hit that unfollow button, expeditiously. Surround yourself with those who ignite your passion.
Life is a journey of self-discovery, growth, and constant evolution. Embrace the lessons, celebrate the wins, and navigate the lows with grace. Remember, you’re a force to be reckoned with. Stay true to yourself, live fearlessly, and keep slaying, because you’ve got this!
Drop a comment below and let me know which lesson resonates with you the most. And don’t forget to share this post with your tribe who need a dose of realness. My DM’s are open on Twitter and IG if you’d like to talk more!
If you’ve never owned a Bath & Body Works 3-wick candle, first let me ask, is everything okay? Second, let me just tell you you can never go wrong with these candles. For starters, they go on sale at least twice a year, and they have some great scent profiles that can fill up a room (especially if you opt for the 3-wick candles, which I recommend).
The next candle sale for the year (2022) is likely to be sometime in early December. Based on past candle sales, they’ll likely be priced under $12. Follow me on Twitter so I can notify you!
Also, remember, when burning candles, it’s essential to trim the wick to get the best, soot-free burn possible (here’s my favorite wick trimmer). It also wouldn’t hurt to get a rechargeable electric lighter (you can find one for cheap on Amazon).
Below are the best candles carried at Bath & Body Works (that are currently available on the website)
Fragrance Profile: Rich Mahogany, Black Teakwood, Dark Oak, Frosted Lavender with Natural Essential Oils
To know me is to know that Mahagony Teakwood Intense (formally labeled High Intensity) is my all-time favorite Bath & Body Works candle. I’ll even go out on a limb to say that it’s one of the best smelling Bath & Body Works Candles ever.
If this is your go-to scent, chances are you’re single af looking for a man or a bachelor looking to impress your women friends with good vibes and smell goods.
If deep breathing and serenity were a candle, it would 1000% be this highly rated candle. This candle has saved me from exploding on numerous occasions, and I always keep them stocked in my home.
Fragrance Profile: Toasted Marshmallow, Smoldering Woods, Fire Roasted Vanilla, Crystallized Amber with Natural Essential Oils
I’ll be the first to say sweet-scented candles are not my cup of tea. However, after hearing one of my favorite YouTubers, Arnell Armon, rave about this candle, I tried it, and I must say it smells fantastic. It’s a great fall/winter scent. In my opinion, it smells like a sweeter version of REPLICA By The Fireplace (which is available in a perfume and candle).
The gworl that may like this candle is likely into sweet-smelling perfumes like Prada Candy (available on ULTA, Sephora, Nordstrom, favorite pastime is getting her hair done, and enjoys taking long bubble baths just because…
Fragrance Profile: Soft Rose Petals, Rain-Kissed English Ivy, Lemon Blossom, Soft Spring Musk with Natural Essential Oils
If receiving gifts in the form of fresh bouquets is your love language, then the Rose Water & Ivy candle from Bath & Body Works is a must-have for you, babe. It smells divine and has a great throw that fills the room without being overpowering.
Don’t let the name fool you. This candle does not have an overpowering, orange grove kind of scent. The amber notes help offset the citrus making it a fresh scent that smells super welcoming.
If you’re on a hunt for a candle that fits the vibes in your home year-round, look no more. The sophisticated blend meshes well with any season. Grab a few so you can always have one on hand.
Raise your hand if you’ve ever bought someone a perfume set for the holidays because, quite frankly, you couldn’t think of anything else to get. I’m guilty as well. This is your sign to stop gifting body fragrances for the holidays. For starters, perfumes (and colognes) can be very personal. Most people are very particular about fragrance worn on their bodies, not to mention one scent can smell vastly on different people. Skip the perfume gift sets this year and opt to give your friends and family a luxurious candle for their home instead. And of course, grab one from a Black-Owned Candle Company.
I’ve rounded up 15 Black-Owned Candle Companies that you can shop this holiday season (and beyond) for yourself or anyone on your Christmas shopping list.
Fragrance Profile– A fresh and clean scent of linen, lemon , green florals & light musk
Let me just tell you—I’m obsessed with this scent. It smells like grown and sexy fresh linen and the scent fills up the room. Though the scents name is “Noon”, I find myself burning it all times of the day because it really puts me in a great mood and helps me vibe out no matter what ghetto mess life throws at me.
Fragrance Profile- Top: bergamot, cinnamon, clary sage. Middle: lily of the valley, rose, lavender. Base: patchouli, amber, musk.
Each candle from this brand captures the essence of the Harlem Rennaisance on wax (literally). This particular scent pays homage to Duke Ellington, a Harlemnite that positively impacted the era, music, and Harlem. As a fellow Harlemnite, may I just add I want to buy all of these.
Beauty and Lifestyle Influencer, Jackie Aina, did what needed to be done with her candle collection. The throw on the candles fills up the room with good vibes.
FYI, my favorite scent from the core collection is “Cuffing Season.” Although I’m not cuffing anything but my jeans at the moment, this candle feels like a warm hug from a big, fine sexy man.
Spoken Flame’s claim to fame is the wooden wicks that crackle and “speak” to you as the indulgent candle scent fills up the room. This set contains a mix of woody, citrus, and floral aromas making it the perfect luxe gift to yourself or a friend looking to explore home fragrances.
FYI, wooden wicks are said to burn cleaner, leaving less smoke after extinguishing the candle.
Fragrance Profile: Sweet fennel, Lavender, Orange and Clove
If a cleaner (less smoky) burn is something you’d like to gift or bring into your home, here’s another wooden wick option that meets that requirement. This particular mix of fragrance notes is unexpected and unique, hence the name 8th Wonder.
Fragrance Profile: Sage + Champagne + Lavender + Oak
When you move into a new space (physically or figuratively), lighting a good-smelling candle is the icing on the cake. Extra brownie points if it’s a Black-Owned candle. This CAVO candle embodies that feeling of entering a new space and comes with an accompanying playlist to set the mood. “Alexa play New Apartment by Ari Lennox.”
As far as candles are concerned, Fresh Linen is a fragrance profile that you can almost never go wrong with. This soy blend candle cleverly named after the top charting OutKast single is one worth trying if a fresh and so clean home smell is what you’re looking for (or to gift).
Fragrance Profile- Ozone, Fresh Rain, and White Tea
If you haven’t realized, this blog is a Fresh Candle stan account. The addition of white tea in this candle from Petty Candle Co. makes for an irresistible refreshing fragrance that you’ll won’t regret.
Fragrance Profile: Sensual sandalwood against elegant iris and cardamom.
Channeling the underrated NoLita neighborhood of NYC, this candle scent is described as sophisticated, unexpected, and intoxicating.
Dawn Marie West poured her Afro-Latina roots into this luxury candle brand, and a percentage of proceeds go to The Dream Project, helping underprivileged children in DR.
Fragrance Profile: “Hints of orange and bergamot while rosemary enhances the natural essence. Patchouli and tobacco round out the base for a beautiful, deep character.“
The best thing about this candle beside the intoxicating scent notes is the option to choose your tumbler color. From matted black to glimmering gold, you can match this candle to the home aesthitic it shall burn in.
Fragrance Profile: “Welcomes you seaside with the scent of rum-spiked, grapefruit-flavored Ting and sugar cane.”
Tapping into Dariel’s (one-third of Bright Black Candles) Kingston, Jamaica roots, this candle is a nod to what many people know and love about the destination. Everyting irie.
Fragrance Profile- Top: Sea Salt, Ozone Mid: Jasmine, Lily of the Valley, Green Leaves Bottom: Wood, Tonka Bean
Inspired by New Orleans, this luxury candle brand capture the energy of New Orleans in home fragrance form. If you’ve never been to NOLA, Wicks + NOLA Candle Co. is the next best thing to booking a trip.
In this edition of “TikTok made me buy it,” we have Outre’s Melted Hairline Lace Front Wig HD in style “Jenni.” Once upon a time, synthetic wigs gave old-er church lady vibes (why so shiny yet stiff?). However, today’s synthetic wigs are giving human lace wigs a run for their money. Outre’s Melted Hairline HD wigs are one of the more popular lines of HD synthetic, according to some of the wig wizards on the innanet. Of course, I had to try it out for myself to give y’all the tea. Did I mention this wig starts at $35 (prices vary based on color)?
The details of the Wig (I’m wearing the color Golder Amber)
Jenni after styling with hot rollers. This was after day 5 of testing this wig btw.
I applied this synthetic wig using Bold Hold Liquid Gold as my adhesive. To flatten the top of the wig (surrounding the part) I used She Is Bomb Collection Wax Stick and an electric hot comb. To curl the front of the wig just a bit more, I used T3 Micro Hot Rollers. This helped the Jenni wig look a bit more curled in the front than it comes out of the pack. As I mentioned earlier,Outre’s Melted Hairline collection generally withstands up to 400 degrees in heat.
I wore the Outre Melted Hairline “Jenni” “wig five times for at least 5 hours each (and once while biking with a helmet on—that’s how dedicated I was to see what this wig had to offer). The tangling was minimal. For the hair to be so full, it doesn’t tangle nearly as much as I expected it to. It tangled a bit more than a human hair wig but not to the point of knotting up. To detangle, I brushed it with a Felecia Leatherwood detangling hairbrush.
Jenni wig styled with T3 Micro Hot Rollers. This is after a couple of wears, so the wig needed a shampoo.
There was some shedding but not a ton. The shedding is more than likely coming from cutting the lace and manipulating the parting, which wig wearers know is bound to happen when you’re dealing with lace.
With no hesitation, I must say yes. For starters, this particular style is soft, effortless, and pretty. The wig’s layers are cut perfectly, though I did consider cutting it a bit more in the front. It reminds me of a Dominican blowout done on coarse hair (the fibers on the wig are kinky/yaki textured). If you’ve been looking for a reason to try Amazon Wigs, let this blog post be your sign to pull the trigger.
While the lace is decent for a synthetic, I still needed to add a powder foundation to make the lace match with my skin (Try: FENTY Pro Fil’tr Powder Foundation, Sephora Microblur Powder). I love that I can wear it pre-styled or curl it to get it a bit more defined.
The pandemic has been looming over us for over a year now. I don’t even need to go into detail about how much damage it has caused within the world and our personal lives. Dealing with a pandemic has been rough, and unfortunately for us, it doesn’t look like covid-19 will be going away anytime soon.
Although many of us are still adjusting to our new norms, the mundane of everyday life has not ceased. We are still expected to show up as our best selves, even amid a pandemic, especially those of us who are working on the frontlines as essential workers.
Practicing self-care is more important than ever right now. It is crucial to our well-being that we take care of our physical and psychological health. Below are four ways I have been dealing with the pandemic blues.
Weekly At-Home Spa Days.
I have always been a HUGE spa lover. My mom started me on my self-care journey early. When I was a little girl, she made sure I took lavender, milk, and honey baths, did face masks, and visited hair and nail salons as often as possible. At the time, I didn’t realize she was preparing me to know the importance of caring for yourself as a woman and how much doing so does for your spirit. As I grew older, I made sure to continue to pamper myself with spa days and acts of self-care.
My at-home spa days have been my saving grace throughout this pandemic. I can still enjoy a level of luxury I’m used to without the hefty price tag, a win-win in my book. They consist of me pouring myself a glass of champagne, deep-conditioning my hair, blasting my facial steamer, using my favorite face masks and oils, putting my feet up, and thoroughly enjoying some me time.
Writing down your thoughts and emotions have a tremendous effect on how you process and internalize the world.
I am an advocate for journaling. If you sit down with me and begin to discuss your problems I’m going to ask “do you journal?”. For years, I made it a mission of mine to journal daily, however, once the pandemic happened I caught a severe case of thepandemic bluesand I was not in the mood to write like I normally do.
One day I recorded a voice note to help me express and process my emotions and I loved how relieved I felt afterward, ever since then I’ve been voice journaling. Journaling daily is a practice I recommend to everyone—find the medium that best suits you.
Five Minutes of Daily Meditation.
Practicing spiritual mindfulness for five minutes every day helps me to stay present, remain focused, and feel at peace. Especially now, I rarely have a dull moment and my mind is always racing. Taking a few minutes to sit or lie still, breathe deeply, and just live in the current moment is essential. After meditating, I always gain a sense of clarity that helps me to remember what we view as the present will one day be a thing of the past.
Social-Distanced Fun With Loved-Ones.
Although we are in a pandemic and large gatherings are still very dangerous, many cities have returned to some type of public normalcy. A lot of places are open at 25% capacity and observing strict covid regulations. If you feel comfortable enough to do so, grab a friend and head to brunch, lunch, or dinner. Recently I met up with a friend for brunch and our gathering turned out to be just what I needed to restore my mental and emotional health. Just make sure you and your party have all recently tested negative for covid and please, wear your damn mask.
Share this post along with your favorites acts of self care (pandemic or not).
astoldby, Deveney M.
Deveney Marshall is a New Orleans-based filmmaker and actress, mental health specialist, entrepreneur, and lifestyle influencer. She is the CEO of the society and culture website thedevandthecity.com and the owner of DEVANDTHECITY Productions. Deveney’s mission in life is to inspire and empower others to be their true and authentic selves. Be sure to follow Deveney on her journey on Instagram and Twitter @devandthecity.
I’m not going to give a long, drawn-out speech for why I’m creating this guide. It’s the holiday season and we’re still buying black (purr). These are the gifts that I’ve been eying for myself (if we’re being completely honest) but I’m certain that they will make amazing gifts for the folks on your list.
From a twisting vibrator to some new drip for you to rock in the living room, here are some of my favorite Black-Owned products to gift this season.
The only way to stay in your bag this holiday season is with the genuine cowhide leather purse that is sure to make a statement. One small detail about this purse that I absolutely LOVE is that it has detachable straps.
Hanifa is already known for their amazing knit designs such as the every so popular Miya knit dress. But this knitted scarf is up next on everyone’s list of Hanifa favs. FYI, seriously buy me this if you don’t know what to get me for Christmas or my half birthday in January.
Designer Brandon Blackwood blessed us this year with the “End Systematic Racism ” totes available in various shades and textures. The latest added to the lineup is this genuine pony hair zebra version. NEED
Note: This item ships starting December 16th, 2020
Ballin on a budget never looked so good with the high-quality jewelry statement piece. This 18K gold over sterling steel style is available in both a 12″choker version and a longer 15″ necklace. If you love the extraness of layering, I’d spring for the set with both for $106.
If there’s one thing about me, I’m going to wear a Black ass graphic tee or hoodie, and women created by a Black designer is the icing on the cake for me. This one features my fave, Lil Kim, which is right up my alley, to say the least.
If there’s one thing about me, I’m going to chill in my house in luxury. These genuine lamb fur slippers are the WOO slippers I need in my life. R.I.P. Pop Smoke.
If there’s one thing that I stan, it’s affordable bad bitchery. This headband which is available in 4 colors, is super cute for the low. Grab a two at minimum.
Mented is uncontestably the GOAT when it comes to nude lipsticks for Black women (after all, that is the root of the brand). They’re currently offering an amazing trio to try out some shades at a slightly discounted price (lipsticks are usually $18 apiece). My dream trio is Dope Taupe, Peach Please, and Foxy Brown just in case you’re wondering.
A friend with wine is a friend of mine. I absolutely love McBride Sister Wine and this particular set comes with a bottle of California Reisling, Rose, and Zinfandel. Winter quarantine drinking isn’t complete without these Black-owned wine selections.
If “bad bitch” was glassware, then this stem wine glass set is it. What better way to spend your days than drinking your Black-owned wine from your fabulous Black-Owned wine glasses. *Clink Clink*
Much like many of the women on your feeds, I became a plant mom (of 9 to be exact) during this seemingly never-ending quarantine. Some of my thriving plants came from a Black-owned plant shop, Natty Garden. luckily for you, you can order online if you don’t live in NYC to check out their brick and mortar locations.
My plant pick is a Pothos because it’s super easy to take care of and pretty resilient if you don’t know wtf you’re doing forreal.
I hate to break it to you but the deadline to order this super cute clutch in time for Christmas has passed. But if you’re not too proud to give a fashionable late Christmas gift, this is the one.
You know how black people seem to have the same childhood? Well, this card game tests that and much more requiring you to guess the meaning the culturally relevant acronyms with just hints.
Which one these will be gifting for yourself or for someone this holiday season?
When Beyonce droppedLemonade, we took a step back to reclaim our power in relationships. When Cardi B dropped “Bodak Yellow”, we got in our bag and made money moves. We couldn’t decide if we were having City Girls or a Hot Girl Summer. Moral of the story, every woman should have a boss bitch playlist and that isn’t up for debate.
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